You should not dwell on sundry good or bad actions once they have been performed.
Your actions generates feelings. If you act slobbish you will feel like a slob. If you act energetic you will feel energetic. You have to develop the skill of choosing your actions consciously and feeling a certain way.
It doesn't matter what you show to the world (to some extent) but what truely matters is how you feel inside, your authenticity.
Be so good they cannot ignore you! if you don't have a strong reason to get better at something you won't be motivated to be persistent and follow through the next 4 steps. This is your fuel to get you to strive for improvement.
A completely life altering state of mind, more than a "crush", very intense feelings of affection towards somebody else, when these feelings are not reciprocated it can destroy one's life. It is an involuntary state of mind which seems to result from a romantic attraction to another person, combined with overwhelming, obsessive need to have one's feelings reciprocated.
Love connection is all about giving a 100% from both the sides into the relationship.
Make happiness your priority because that is what you want. Choose happiness as the top most priority in your life, choose happiness over success because when you are happy you are bound to be successful.
Do all the things that make your heart pound so hard that it feels to you like it will tear your chest apart and bounce out of your body!!!!!
Humans get married and make children and familes for the soul purpose of keeping our human race alive, this is how our brains are wired. At the same time we want our children to be of high quality, intelligent and healthy for they have to survive in this world and so we choose our partners/mates … Continue reading HOW TO RAISE INTELLIGENT CHILDREN
IF YOU ARE A PARENT: Tell you children again and again, time after time, till they realise that they are worthy of love & affection and that they can freely express their authentic selves or feelings to the world. Tell them that they can trust people and accept their love. Tell them being vulnerable is … Continue reading THE MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU CAN TELL YOUR CHILDREN
Be a grown up and mature being, don't put up a fight, that's ridiculous! Stay cool, stay humble and they will be flattered by your cool and world class attitude.
The people who require love to fill in their own voids and holes of their heart & soul are weak people. It is like they are filling a deep hole in the ground with sand to make it look complete and on level. It is like filling the holes in their heart by love that they have begged from other people at their mercy to make themselves feel good
None of the living beings in the entire universe wants to experinece pain. We all are pleasure craving beings. All we want to experience is a broad spectrum of positive emotions, pleasure and sense stimulation. With this kind of desire we start to live in the world of fantasies, where we imagine and seek only … Continue reading Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional
I am sure you have heard many times that "you must meditate" and I am also sure that you do not meditate on a persistent basis. Here are the 3 reasons that I see why people do not meditate: They don't understand what meditation is. Even if they think they know what meditation is they are … Continue reading Why to meditate?
We all human beings want to be happy. That is the unrealized ultimate goal of a human life. Happiness is a state of being, in which we feel all the positive emotions; but the main problem with us is that we are not able to keep this happiness permanent and unconditional. We may be extremely … Continue reading How to create unconditional permanent happiness
I've identified 3 things that will make you a loser.. If you don't get these 3 things right you will never do anything great with your life! 1. Surrounding yourself with Crappy People If you surround yourself with crappy people who are not dedicated to do something useful out of their life, who are demotivating, … Continue reading These will make you a loser
39 popular books summarized in 3 sentences or less When I read nonfiction books, I usually take notes on the key ideas and lessons learned. Recently I added a fun twist to this process. Each time I have finished a book during the past year, I have tried to summarize it in just three sentences … Continue reading 39 books summarized in 3 lines
Pre-Game rituals is the key to your success. (Checkout how it makes your day perfect) In this article I am going to guide you on how to build your own solid pre-game plan. **Note you cannot use this tool unless you have set your standards. If you have not checkout how to set goals and … Continue reading Construct your Pre-Game Ritual
Do you know what sets champions and leaders apart from others? All ultra successful people have one things in common that makes them out stand everyone. It is this one quality that will help you win battles. It doesn't matter if you are a sportsman, an actor, an entrepreneur or a student if you take … Continue reading Make your day perfect.
I won't waste your time in telling long stories about the journey. I want to get straight forward and convey the message in most simple, direct and fastest way. So, below are few thoughts I has realized in my 3 days trip, hopefully this will help you as well. **Note: I won't be explaining every though because … Continue reading The journey of 11 truths.
"CRAT Technique" for overcoming all mental illnesses. "You deserve mental freedom to fly" "Control your mind or it will control you" There was a time when my life used to suck, my routine was random, and my body clock was disturbed. My house was filthy, my body was unhealthy and the mind never stopped running. … Continue reading 1 concept to overcome all metal illnesses – CRAT Technique
How to increase your intelligence? Proven 11 Steps Guide. First of all, let me explain what I mean when I say the word "intelligence". To be clear, I'm not just talking about increasing the volume of facts or bits of knowledge you can accumulate, or what is referred to as crystallized intelligence—this isn't fluency or memorization … Continue reading 11 proven steps to increase your intelligence
We all have a set of personal rules that dictate how we interact with and judge other people. Our rules also dictate how we view ourselves and how we see the world. Our rules shape us, they make up who we are. There’s nothing wrong with that! Before I write about the power of personal rules … Continue reading Power of “MY RULES”
The blessings which could be received, could be taken away. While we often stop to think, we miss opportunity. The gain acquired at the expenses of reputation, should be counted as a loss. It is easier for a woman to shed tears, without salt. The greatest of comforts is to be free from blame. Yesterday … Continue reading 54 Wise tips for easy life – Ancient Wisdom
The 10 enemies inside us: The below is the summary of the book "freeing the heart" All it says is the goal of human life is you understand it's mind, destroy the enemy and live a quality life which is beneficial for society. According to Buddha there are 10 enemies inside us that can be … Continue reading The 10 enemies inside us
Before I start the article I would like to cheer you up!! You are worth more than you can ever realize. You do not need validation of any sort from anyone because no one is qualified enough to judge or validate you. There can only be one person to judge you - the GOD. One … Continue reading Depression : How I overcame it & how you can too.
Alright! It's quit a while now that I watch fishes for a long time. I was quite surprised to notice that while watching fishes swim across the aquarium my mind used to get blank! Watching fishes is like mindfulness meditation. It has several heath benefits such as lower blood pressure, stress relief, etc It got … Continue reading 19 lessons I’ve learned from fishes.
1. You cried, with extreme happiness and rush of all positive emotions. 2. You lose your sleep and hunger because you are deeply soaked in the work you love and experience extreme satisfaction. 3. You fell crazy and fantastic! The energy is radiating for every cell of your body. 4. You inspire people. Your personality … Continue reading 15 Signs you are living your life purpose.
A disorderly mind is a liability, both to it's owner and others. Without experience there can be no understanding hence giving birth to intolerance. When a man gets rid of the desires he reaches the state of perfection and calm. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on … Continue reading 5 Pieces Of Buddhist Wisdom
Love. A chemical reaction that makes us sleepless, feel butterflies in the stomach, and many other weird things happen that are just amazing!!
1. Make strange things familiar and the familiar strange. 2. Be open minded. Accepts suggestions and ideas. Ask for help. 3. Have knowledge in more than 1 field. Learn about painting, computers and volleyball - everything. 4. Have a broad range of interests and passions. 5. Have the power of connecting the seemingly unconnected. Checkout … Continue reading 5 pillars of creative thinking
Top 3 personal development concepts that will increase your efficiency & quality of life. Checkout here.. Top personal development concepts. Posted by Aman Varma for project self mastery.
Tip 1: You should not dwell on sundry goods or bad actions once they have been performed. Tip 2: Let Go - Do not hold on to anything or else it will destroy your inner peace. Tip 3: Watch your words & thoughts. Avoid any bad & unethical thinking and talks. Tip 4: Stop Over … Continue reading 5 Tips To Taming The Monkey Mind
This is probably the most important and powerful skill you can develop as a human being. Definition: "Mindfulness is experiencing reality literally, exactly as it is. It is the interface between you and the reality." - Leo Gura Components of mindfulness: Focus, Sensory Clarity, Emotional Stability. There are three main channels through which you experience reality - Seeing (Images), Hearing (Sounds), Feeling (Sensations) … Continue reading MINDFULNESS MEDITATION: A Practice
For many of us meditation is silencing of mind. But..everyone is different. Anything that you do, which brings peace & happiness, continue doing it. This is meditation. I am not here to tell you what you should do. It's all about becoming your own guru. It's all about sharing with one another. But I can share some … Continue reading Meditation: From a new perspective.
Problem 1: Depression - No one liked me, no one appreciated me, everyone criticized me. I received sarcastic comments. I was an idiot! I was in depression, I was lonely, I was broke into million pieces. I needed love! I needed hugs! It took nothing for people to make me cry like a helpless poor … Continue reading 3 biggest problems of my life & the facts that helped me overcome them!
Stephen Covey, author of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People and First Things First popularized the concept of a Time Management Matrix for prioritizing. The system advocates the use of four quadrants to determine the tasks you “need” to do and deciding what should be made a priority. For those who are not familiar with it, here’s a picture … Continue reading Time-Management Matrix
Yesterday I completed with this amazing book "The five temptations of a CEO by Patrick Lencioni" A great book which highlights the reasons due to which CEOs fail. I am writing a summary of this book for you, so that you can prevent yourself from falling into these 5 temptations. Here it goes.. Temptation 1: … Continue reading The 5 temptations of a CEO
Relationships are not always peaches & cream. It is all about honoring each other's "imperfections" and growing together. That's the secret! A lot of us talk about "the one" but you will realize that there is no "one", there are "many ones" that you will meet in your life time. It's all about "the one right … Continue reading Love Confusion.
Happiness is a mind game. Happiness is all about being in the present moment. Stay connected with your body because your body is your subconscious mind.
Reading is a complex cognitive process of decoding symbols in order to construct or derive meaning (reading comprehension). It is a means of language acquisition, of communication, and of sharing information and ideas.