Why the rich get richer and poor get poorer?
To answer this question, Psychologist Robert Rosenthal Conducted a classroom study in the year 1970.
The results he came up with were astonishing!
Love is good. But can it be evil? I bet ya, it can be. What if people can take you for granted by manipulating you with the universe's most wonderful emotion - love? If love is used for bonding & creating, it can be used for destruction and self service as well. Love can make … Continue reading Love Bombing – Manipulation Weapon
The people I found to be physically beautiful/handsome and attractive, I would naturally associated all the good qualities like charm, skills, capabilities, leadership, friendliness, intelligence, funny, etc to them even if they didn't actually posses it.
Everyday that man would go from shop to shop to gather some money. That's what all beggars do. But he is different. His clothes are filthy, torn and disgusting but that man always "tucks in" in his shirt and wears "a belt" to support his pant.
There are many factors that together decide the quality and success of a married or any other kind of relationships.
Relationships is what I study the most because I have had some unpleasant experiences with it.
This nature of a our mind has generated unbelievable things like phone, internet, houses, roads, clothes, books, systems, laws, language, etc. Everything around you is a solution to a problem.
It will think that your relationships aren't up to the mark, it will think that you ain't worth enough and all sorts of emotional conflicts (problems) will come up just because you cannot sit idle, your brain has to come up with a problem so that it can solve it. That's a natural function of our brain.
So, if there is an inward problem in your life, simply ask yourself if your mind has created it or is it something really present externally.
There is nothing wrong with you most of the time, you stay in your head and create massive problems for yourself because you can't find problems outside in the world to solve!
Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you're living?
If yes, you'll die soon because you won't do anything to push yourself & grow. When you don't grow guess what happens? You die! SO EXPAND YOUR VISION & KEEP MAKING YOURSELF AND THE DIFFERENT AREAS OF YOUR LIFE BETTER. AIM TO GET HEALTHIER/ EARN MORE MONEY/ IMPROVE ROMANCE/ SOCIALIZE BETTER.. I hope you get it... (the motivation!)
What you will learn:
Make people believe in whatever you want them to believe in about you or the worldHow your mind is made to believe in fallacyHow your relationships are ruined by gossipsHow you can make people believe in something which is not true (Do not use this, Just understand it so that you cannot be fooled)You can use this effect to reprogram your mind into whatever you want it to be likeWhat makes a lier "great"And much more..
Watch the video here
in as little as 3:03 minutes!
In fact, if you care about your success
as much as I do, promise yourself that
you will NEVER say those 4 words again.
Listen. The LARGE MAJORITY of human beings practice being low-status, therefore acting like them gets your grouped in with them.
It is getting difficult to handle such a "compounded effect" of my actions combined for the years to become a man of worth and respect. That's overwhelming to me now.
You want people to associate you (your presence) with positive emotions only. That means, never deliver bad news (bribe someone else to deliver it but don't do it by yourself). Never stick around with people when they are experiencing negative emotions. Never, stay away from them. Your presence in a negative situation will be associated as you being the one who brings the bad situations. Just like the bell.
Subjective validation, sometimes called personal validation effect, is a cognitive bias by which a person will consider a statement or another piece of information to be correct if it has any personal meaning
Persuasion is a rational or emotional appeal to influence someone to adopt a certain idea, behaviour or attitude.
We are most likely to attribute a certain behavior of others as their internal personality trait (mostly negative) and often underestimate the influence that external factors, such as situational influences, have on another person's behavior.
And when the finger is pointing at us, we attribute the same behavior at the external event unconsciously for the sole purpose of protecting our self esteem.
This is the fundamental error that we make when trying to ascribe a meaning to someone's behavior or a cause of an event.
Social psychology is the scientific study of how people's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are influenced by the actual, imagined, or implied presence of others. In this definition, scientific refers to the empirical method of investigation.
But here is the thing, these impacts are positive as well as negative. It totally depends upon the degree of it's execution and your perspective. That's why sometimes they are beneficial other times they may backfire!
I have realised that when the time's destined, people will come into your life & when the time's over, people leave. The person who loves you today may not love you 3 months from now, because the time's over. Everything will come, stay and leave when it's time. Everything comes, stays and leaves to teach us something, to make us grow.
If yes, good. This will instantly sky rocket the set point of your spirit + emotional health + happiness. Generally speaking, it will Optimze your good emotions right away.
We like to miss the way someone made us feel rather than the way he or she acted and treated us. We remember the way people affected us and not the people themselves.
When we miss someone, we don't miss the actual person but the feelings that person gave us in past. We miss the way we felt and the people we became when we were with him or her.
Hate & love the same person? Confused a little? Disturbed a little? Mixed feelings for the same person? Not anymore. I've struggled with this, finally cracked this psycho-emotional mingle. Let me tell you if you think you hate & love the same person, then that is not true. It's not the case. The fact is that … Continue reading Hate and love the same person?
Piers Steele is a leading research scientist. After analyzing hundreds of studies on motivation, he came up with a little equation to capture the essence of motivation. It’s a little abstract on first blush but worth internalizing and using as one of our tools. I recommend keeping this ready at hand and using it often … Continue reading Motivation = Expectancy times Value divided by Impulsivity times Delay.
Aretè is a greek word which means excellence and virtue. Being the highest expression of yourself every single moment throughout your life will bring you true happiness because the gap between who you currently are and what you are capable of, lies the anxiety/depression/etc.
A good mother is a wise and intelligent woman. Her foresight for her family is vivid, she's highly intuitive, she is a great decision maker because she knows that every single decision of her's can either make or break a family. She's able to analyses and foresee the effects of her actions and decisions on her family.
Below are my 16 handpicked lines from many books, I find them fascinating and valuable enough to share'em with you. This is quick and super deep!
The unexamined life is not worth living - Socrates
1. They are doing something with passion: I don't know what it is but surely there is something about that person who is crazy over something.. it can be cars, career, hobby, socializing, crafts, arts, cooking, sculpturing, writting, sports, computers, public speaking, teaching, music or any damn thing. When someone is passionate about at least … Continue reading 5 SIGNS OF A CONFIDENT PERSON
It doesn't matter what you show to the world (to some extent) but what truely matters is how you feel inside, your authenticity.
None of the living beings in the entire universe wants to experinece pain. We all are pleasure craving beings. All we want to experience is a broad spectrum of positive emotions, pleasure and sense stimulation. With this kind of desire we start to live in the world of fantasies, where we imagine and seek only … Continue reading Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional
We all human beings want to be happy. That is the unrealized ultimate goal of a human life. Happiness is a state of being, in which we feel all the positive emotions; but the main problem with us is that we are not able to keep this happiness permanent and unconditional. We may be extremely … Continue reading How to create unconditional permanent happiness
Pre-Game rituals is the key to your success. (Checkout how it makes your day perfect) In this article I am going to guide you on how to build your own solid pre-game plan. **Note you cannot use this tool unless you have set your standards. If you have not checkout how to set goals and … Continue reading Construct your Pre-Game Ritual
I won't waste your time in telling long stories about the journey. I want to get straight forward and convey the message in most simple, direct and fastest way. So, below are few thoughts I has realized in my 3 days trip, hopefully this will help you as well. **Note: I won't be explaining every though because … Continue reading The journey of 11 truths.
"CRAT Technique" for overcoming all mental illnesses. "You deserve mental freedom to fly" "Control your mind or it will control you" There was a time when my life used to suck, my routine was random, and my body clock was disturbed. My house was filthy, my body was unhealthy and the mind never stopped running. … Continue reading 1 concept to overcome all metal illnesses – CRAT Technique
How to increase your intelligence? Proven 11 Steps Guide. First of all, let me explain what I mean when I say the word "intelligence". To be clear, I'm not just talking about increasing the volume of facts or bits of knowledge you can accumulate, or what is referred to as crystallized intelligence—this isn't fluency or memorization … Continue reading 11 proven steps to increase your intelligence
We all have a set of personal rules that dictate how we interact with and judge other people. Our rules also dictate how we view ourselves and how we see the world. Our rules shape us, they make up who we are. There’s nothing wrong with that! Before I write about the power of personal rules … Continue reading Power of “MY RULES”
Before I start the article I would like to cheer you up!! You are worth more than you can ever realize. You do not need validation of any sort from anyone because no one is qualified enough to judge or validate you. There can only be one person to judge you - the GOD. One … Continue reading Depression : How I overcame it & how you can too.
1. You cried, with extreme happiness and rush of all positive emotions. 2. You lose your sleep and hunger because you are deeply soaked in the work you love and experience extreme satisfaction. 3. You fell crazy and fantastic! The energy is radiating for every cell of your body. 4. You inspire people. Your personality … Continue reading 15 Signs you are living your life purpose.