“Leadership is not a title. It’s a behavior, Live it” – Robin Sharma
Note: This article is the additional supplement to my video “The Leader in You – Dale Carnegie Book Review & Top 10 Ideas” If you miss the above video, you might suffer from loss of all time wisdom on leadership. Do watch it and subscribe to my YouTube channel
There is a leader in you. I can see it, but can you?
Maybe not yet and it’s only because of these 3 influences listed down below..
1. Surrounding yourself with toxic people
If you surround yourself with demotivating, toxic, energy sucking people who are not dedicated to do something useful out of their life then you are under high influence that the leader in you will never show up.
Can you spot someone who is always demotivating you? Someone who always has a problem to everything?
Who is the first person that comes to your mind when “shallow minded” word is used?
You see, there are a lot of signs that show you are surrounded by toxic people who are not allowing the leader in you to come up!
Your aim is to be useful to yourself, your family and ultimately the entire mankind. So start following and surrounding yourself with inspiring, excellent and wise people. People who appreciate your natural talents and influence you to sharpen your skills.
Do you want to be a leader? If yes, Kick the losers out of your life because “birds of a feather flock together”
If you want to know how to do this, I would highly suggest you to READ THIS BOOK, by Dale Carnegie.
2. Having poor mindset
How rich is your mindset towards everything in your life? Rate on a scale of 0 to 10.
If it’s below 7, I would invite you to take responsibility of this in your hand. Taking 100% responsibility of yourself is the only way of empowerment.
You become what you think, your thoughts decide your destiny. According to Napoleon Hill’s Lost Prosperity Secrets, he says that the most dominant & prolonged thought on your mind becomes your reality. You can call it the Law of Attraction, if that term feels right to you. I talk about this more in this video of mine at YouTube, Watch it here.
Poor mindset about Money, Love, Career, Health, Relationships, etc largely impact the quality of your life. If you aren’t careful then the world will dump their trash in your mind and you will end up living a life that you will always regret.
But don’t worry, I have a solution to this as well and it is simple. You have to join Life Optimization Academy, in order to fuel your mind with endless wisdom daily. I share mind blasting, action oriented wisdom daily with the members in my private list. Make sure you enter your email address given here and become a proud Optimizer!
So are you ready to take charge of your mind and feed it quality information daily or continue living a mundane and average life like others who should be ashamed of wasting their life?
3. Not having passion
Your work defines you! You express yourself through your work and the only way to do great work is to love what you do. I know that’s nothing new. But this is so powerful!
Apple Inc defines Steve Jobs.
By having an intense passion for your work and doing it everyday you feel fulfilled and satisfied with your life. Without passion life is worthless and you won’t be of any use to humanity.
7 months ago a Team Optimizer Member asked me this,
Aman, How can I choose a perfect career for myself when I have a tons of options avaiable out there?
and my answer was this: Watch how to choose the perfect career
Let me tell you, I struggled with the same thing that you are struggling with. No difference.
But I worked hard to find my life purpose and today I am changing my life and influencing 100s of people coming in my contact daily.
and the funny thing is that not everybody wants to get connected with high quality people such as Team Optimizer and so they keep floating in the shallow seas of mediocrity throughout their life.
What do you choose?
Optimize or Guilt and regret for the rest of your life?
Get these 3 things right, and you will be a leader who will influence the people around you. Cheers!
Resources: The Leader in You by Dale Carnegie
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