Stupid relationship myth

If your “better-half“.. Oops! Let me correct..

The word ‘better-half’ is stupidity, the person who coined this word, Mr. Horace a roman poet must be a complete fantasy idiot & should be given a 100 & half slashes for such a terrible mistake 😜 – he didn’t understand the song of love birds, he must be choked with floods of emotions until he became a schizophrenic. Not kidding πŸ˜‚ how can anyone be 1/2?. Committing in a relationship to make yourself a complete-whole by someone else joining you, who is a half in itself, is a terrible mistake.

Makes sense right? you have to be full by yourself first before engaging in a relationship. We are not here to mend two broken hearts, but to bind two souls who are complete and can support each other. Half’s cannot do that!

So, Mr/Mrs. better-full I wanna tell you something. There is a catastrophic mythspread around by our heedless society that is responsible for injuring relationships. The myth is “Be 100% transparent with your better full & reveal all your secrets”

Let me break this myth today.

I believe it is foolish to expect 100% transparency & self revelation from your partner in relationships.

Come on! We are so absurd that we hide our true perception even from ourselves for the fear of self-intimidation & that we may come to know, face to face, for who we truly are! God! Our true identity will be exposed by us to us & we don’t like that! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ That’s ridiculous fact ignored by us.

We all have privacy needs, thus we keep secrets. Forcing your partner to tell you everything about their life & secrets is no less than physical rape. Its-Mental-Rape.It’s absolutely correct & wise decision to keep extreme private secrets from your partner. We need & deserve privacy and the other person should respect that. Nor does anyone has any on-paper right to have complete control over their partner’s living. Trust & faith? it is whole another facet, depends upon how wise a person is.

Both must be independently-interdependent {mark my words, read them again & understand it – independently-interdependent}, rather than dependent upon the other and making him/her feel you as a burden. Love in relationship should not be 50-50, but a 100-100 from both the individuals, That’s the foundational step most people forget to build. A 100% & not mere 50% efforts from both the birds is what makes a relationship thrive.

Love won’t work if we don’t try. Love is efforts.

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