​How to deal with diversity, problems and difficult times in life

Whether you like it or not

CHALLENGES are a normal part of life..
I think you agree too..
Right?
Things will happen that are out of your control.
How you choose to respond to those challenges when they arise is reflective of your EMOTIONAL STATE.

It is easy to get caught in the trap of 
“why me” or “life is unfair”, 
but these LIMITING BELIEFS don’t serve your higher self, your thought energy and your time..

In the words of Tony Robbins, 

“When your life doesn’t match your blueprint of how you expect it to be, you’re upset, but when it doesn’t match and you feel that there’s nothing you can do, that’s when people suffer.”

The good news is  

that there is ALWAYS

Alright? I am stressing this word 

ALWAYS
something that you can do about this.. Maybe..

Take a new approach to life.

Focus on creating beliefs that empower you to take action and rise above the obstacles that are standing in your way of success.
So many people live in a state of stress because they are unable to control what happens to them. 
{Checkout 6 remedies to cure worry)

Stress manifests itself when expectations cannot be met.

You have two choices – 

you can either change your reality or change your expectations.

When life doesn’t match our expectations, it’s easy to feel like we have failed, but life itself is uncertain.

I guarantee you that there will be times when things don’t work out the way that you planned.

You can do your best to make your ‘perfect plan’ in life unfold, but there are so many events in life that are outside of our control.

What would happen if you stepped back, surrendered, and stopped controlling everything in your life?

In the words of Eckhart Tolle,

“Sometimes surrender means giving up trying to understand and becoming comfortable with not knowing.”

There is freedom in letting go of expectations and control.

We don’t fully understand our strengths until we are tested by adversity, problems, and difficult times in life.

Trust the process of life, relinquish control, and know that everything happens for a reason.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t prepare and work hard in life, but learn to accept whatever happens, and be okay with it.
If you took this perspective, what would this do for your life?

In the words of Ann Landers,

“Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and repeat to yourself the most comforting words of all – this too shall pass.”

Have complete acceptance of what is and faith that all is well in your world.

When you adopt this MINDSET
 you will more easily attract..
 what you want into your life.
{See how to use the law of attraction}

 

No matter how tough things appear right now, trust that you will make it through, and that you will come out the other end stronger and more powerful than ever before.
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