Make people fall in love with you

Love. A chemical reaction that makes us sleepless, feel butterflies in the stomach, and many other weird things happen that are just amazing!!

Based on my personal experiences I have come across 7 hings/traits that will make people fall in love with you. If you search each of the point separately on google, you will get many scientific experiments and evidences to support these points.

Alright! Let’s begin..

1. Personality – Top of the List “PERSONALITY”

Personality refers to individual differences in characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving. People fall in love with those people who have some distinct qualities in themselves. They maybe inborn but mostly developed. Everyone loves a person who can do amazingly cool stuff. If you think the physical appearance is he personality of the individual, then you are partially wrong. Good appearance is a part of the personality. It is god gifted. You simply have it or not. What makes a man valuable is how much has he developed and invested in himself to become better individual and this is what is the most attractive. We are more attracted to people with high capabilities and skills than looks alone. Personal development is the key to make people fall in love with you. You have to have something special to have a special personality because we fall in love with special beings. Develop and polish yourself in every area of your life to be more appealing, attractive and valuable person. Personal development is the way of living your life. Be constructive.

2. Intelligence

Intelligence has been defined in many different ways including one’s capacity for logic, abstract thought, understanding, self-awareness, communication, learning,emotional knowledge, memory, planning, creativity and problem solving. It can be more generally described as the ability to perceive information, and retain it as knowledge to be applied towards adaptive behaviors within an environment.
3. Life purpose

Ambitious/goals: being a person who has a direction in life, or has a big target for himself is attractive. People love them who are aiming at something and taking actions on it. Having a goal for yourself makes you non-needy, that is what makes people fall in for you, your sense of detachment. Do you like a clingy and emotionally attached person who suffocates you with too much attention and needs validation from you?
4. Smell

Smell great and fresh all the time! Nothing is more comforting and soothing than to sit next to someone who smells great!
5. Eye contact

Maintaining eye contact shows that you respect the other person and that you care what they have to say. Eye contact projects attention and understanding & builds mutual trust.
6. Grooming & Appearance

All related to grooming, clean and crisp appearance tells the world that you take care of yourself and you love yourself. Loving yourself is the first critical component of making people fall in love with you! Imagine someone who is chilling in his own zone, not caring what people think of him and accepting himself a 100℅ as he is. That’s what i am talking about, self love makes people love you!
7. Something special (magnetic aura)

“Something” that cannot be named. Have you ever found yourself saying “God! There is SOMETHING in him/her”

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